Is it loserish to be part-time bartender at 26?
I have a non-existent social circle and used to be clueless about girls, but a year ago I got a part time bartending job at THE most popular... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
if that's what you want, then go for it. We are all entitled to chase what makes us happy. If you want to meet new people or have your life in that direction, then go for it. This is your life, you don't have to live by others standards of what you think makes you a loser or not. If you're having fun, enjoying your life, and you have no regrets about your choices, then hell go for it. At the end of the day, we all live with the choices we make/have made. You dont' want to think after, I would have, could have or should have.
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What Guys Said 6
The job doesn't make you a loser. Letting people's opinions affect your level of self-confidence/consciousness does however.
Well, many girls will want and expect you to be bartending as a means to an end, not as a career choice. In the past, you could get away being a bartender, you got really good at it, your presence brought in regular customers, you could make decent buck, and I've met my share of bartenders in their 50s and 60s, and no they were doing it as retirement career. But today it seems, bartending is just one of those jobs you do to put yourself through school.
But hey, at least it is a job, and shows you are willing to work. Find what it was that brought out your confidence before, dig it up.
God speed my brother! Whatever you chose to do, I wish you the best!
Why not get a real day job and bartend part time on the weekends and maybe once per week?
Your priorities are very odd. Stop trying so hard.