How to attract a guy if you're overweight?
I'm 5 feet 7 about 170 lbs. Cute face, and smile. Trying very hard to loose weight but I can't because of a medical condition. Early 20's never even been kissed, horrible online experience.Guys I like are cute, go to the gym sort of guys...not super fit like the hulk or anything.I'm also Indian and like only white guys pretty much.I was born and raised in the west some I'm not like fresh off the boat or anything.
One of my guy friends said I looked "a little above average not like really fat"
and even I see that when I look into the mirror.
Its because I'm relatively taller
Even my gf's are surprised when they find out I'm a size 12 because they think I'm an 8 or 10.
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
Well from what you described, I like you already, since I happen to like women from that part of the world. Sadly, though, guys around your age are still caught on having only skinny girls, and ignore overweight girls, regardless if their face is very pretty or if they have great personalities. Still, it's not hopeless, just get out there more, be friendly to everyone. Eventually you'll find a guy who sees you attractive and will ask you out.
What Guys Said 6
whats your medical condition? pm me if you don't wanna talk in the open?
Well... Find guys who are into that, lower your standards, or find ways to lose weight. Sorry but I'm just being honest, I'm saying what those guys are thinking. Regardless of the medical condition.
it sounds like you just may need to assert yourself more as a sexual being, really show guys that you are interested in being in a relationship...of course the difference between this and desperation are a fine line
Anyone can lose weight with a good diet and exercise it just takes the mindset of I can do it. Calories burned + good diet = Losing weight. With that said honestly I doubt its your weight I know plenty of big girls that get plenty of guys. Try doing things that boost your confidence. Go do girlie things, shopping for new clothes, spend some time at the gym. Guys will really notice the effort.
You need to start liking guys who are equally attractive as you. That is your first problem. Wait, that is your only problem.
What Girls Said 2
Go for guys who are overweight, chubby chasers. Problem solved.
Dress really nicely, cute girlie clothesAlways have your hair styled.no lazy day ponies, you need to make use of those styling toolsWear makeupPaint your nailsReally all girls should be doing this but when you're bigger you do kinda have to step it up to compensateOh and having a friendly charming attitude helps too