Why would me ex contact me after ignoring and avoiding me?
The break-up was once sided, it was basically him just throwing everything we had away for what were silly reasons, insecurity, fear and immaturity...
i sent him a message letting him know that I found more of his things and left it at that. If I get a reply from him and a conversation starts I was thinking I might see if he wanted to go see the new hobbit movie with me. All my friends have already seen it and I do want to see it =| I just figure if we did something like that just as friends it would give me a way to get his stuff back to him and I get to see the movie with a friend, hopefully also ending this stupid hi and then hide nonsense.
any opinion as to whether or not you think asking to meet up after 3 1/3 months to give him back his things he left and asking to do something as friends like a movie is a bad idea?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me as though he is fishing. And by fishing I mean, he invites you out and turns around and ignores you in the hopes that you will chase after him. Its a passive form of chasing you. He wants you to be in his life but he wants you to initiate everything. I did that to an ex when I was 15 to see if she "loved" me enough to chase me. I would agree with Kambo in saying that it is a bit immature and emo. Seems to me that he needs to grow up and stop playing games. I would suggest putting a stop to the bullsh*t and tell him that he's either going to step up or step out. You don't deserve games and you shouldn't let yourself have the time for it. He needs to man up and figure it out. But that's just my $0.02
What Guys Said 4
This guy sounds like a lil' emo bitch.
Maybe he should throw on some Linkin' Park and hide in a dark corner in his room to top off all that insecurity.
He probably contacts you when he is lonely, it seems like he feels a bit of awkwardness there... There could be a few reasons for it but they don't really suit this situation IMO, I'd try not to get hung up on it... It's clearly just annoying you more than anything and he isn't exactly putting any plan into action, so it's not going anywhere, it's better to just try and forget and move on.
booty call, or he could be fishing. maybe he wants you back or isn't sure what he wants.
What Girls Said 2
He is lonely and things you are an easy target. Ignore him. He broke up with you so he figures you still have feelings for him so he is only comes around when he is lonely and can't get attention anywhere else. If his intentions were good then he would be trying so hard that you wouldn't even have to question what was going on. He would show you how sincere he was.
He is probably seeing if there is any interest on your part. Seems like he is just playing a game to see if he still has some influence over your feeling. As hard as it may be I would say just ignore him and don't try to contact him.
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