I want to approach a boy who goes to my school. I have never talked to him. I don't know what to say. I just want him to kind of notice me in a way. I know he knows who I am, we just have never talked & he kind of intimidates me. If you are a guy, what would impress you if a girl came up to you & started talking?
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Approaching a guy isn't like approaching a girl where you have to be charming and funny. Look at the comments below all these guys are saying they'd be happy if a girl approached them.
Just come up to him and ask him a question and try to segue into a conversation from there. You don't necessarily need to seal the deal on the first conversation but it can get your foot in the door and take from complete stranger to some kind of acquaintance and familiarity. then try to talk to him more often.
if you see him, if you talk to him, flirt with him and smile a lot.
A girl who's confident, an easy way is if you share a class to ask about homework or whatever, easy icebreaker. Other than that, if you have the balls to do it, go strait up to him and say something like, "Hey I don't really know you but do you wanna hang out and get coffee or something sometime?". If a girl walked up to me and said that I'd say yes in almost every situation.
Girls seem to worry about approaching guys and I have no idea why. I guess it's just because the stress guys put on approaching girls...
TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS.
Girls get approached often and tend to be more closed off to getting approached and it isn't uncommon for them to be outright rude to guys.
Guys are the complete opposite when we are approached. I have never heard of a single time where a dude isn't anything less than incredibly polite when approached. Guys really appreciate and respect the confidence required for a girl to do this. I cna almost guarantee you the guy will be receptive to talking with you.
That's not to say that he will be interested. He may or may not be, but if he isn't he will be polite about it and continue to talk with you in a friendly manner and try to break the stress with humor to make you feel better.
I once had a female I spoke with fairly often in passing literally start laughing and just walk away when I asked for her number. Every guy I know and most of the male population have had something like this happen. As a result guys are way easier to approach because we know how it feels to be treated like we're a creep just for approaching someone and would never do the same to someone else if it were the reverse.