Will he come back to me, he loved me so much, will he call ?
Can you fall out of love within a week? He told me he loved me. We been together for almost a year and a half now. We argue everyday. Over stupid things. We love one another we do. We live together. I'm older then him. When we fight we say things we don't meant I said something like "If you don't want me then ill be with someone else and get out of my house." It is my house he moved into. He left and said this time ill never call you again I said me either we both swore we wouldn't either. I'm sad and heartbroken and it's my fault I said sorry he said I'm not accepting that sorry, but I don't wanna give in I'm tired of running back to him it's a routine with us we break up all the time but I feel it really over now. He hasn't called at all. I called his friends house he wouldn't come to phone for no one I had called its only 3 days now. And I love him a lot I want him to miss me also I'm not sure if he does what should I do now? I seen him 3 days ago and he was changed saying you pushed me away too much blame yourself and he said we wasn't going out no more is he bluffin to teach me lesson?it was my fault he wanted me to change. And I did throw him out again and say I want a break for today things were said he said I embarrassed him. Can't he get over this he is only 20 and I'm in my 30 does he miss me? weird thing he didn't wanna kiss me that day why is that he was always lovin and he didn't accept my apology will he come back in past we both came back but I been trying he don't answer phone and didn't call me or come by my house,he was the most loving person a week ago and always was with me how is he being strong now? Is someone telling him things? Will he think of me he said he didn't. I love him to death help me
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Most Helpful Opinion
No one is telling him anything he is just tired of arguing and is looking at this to be his out. He did not kiss or be loving because he is not doing it anymore. I know that is hard to hear but I think it is over and he is just tired of it all. I would just focus on yourself and move on. Its not that easy to do. But accepting that its over is a start. I would not call him or anything. Its just as hard for him as it is for you. But, it doesn't look good. Maybe a long break would help you out. But, he isn't bluffing.
What Guys Said 1
I would say move on, he's messed you around too much.
What Girls Said 1
Believe me I know how you feel. One minute you two are affection it towards each other and the next you are not. I think you should let things cool off for a while and then try to talk to him. I think when you're mad you say a lot of stuff that you don't mean but you say it and then regret it. I think I'm guilty of that. But I can tell you that once someone tells you to leave the house/apartment that you two shared, it hurts deep down inside. I was in the same position as your boyfriend. Me and my ex lived together for almost 8 months and he told me to leave too. I was speechless and hurt but I did. I felt like a piece of trash that he can just pick up and throw outside and not think twice about it. I can tell that he is tired but at the same time I think he is hurting more than you. Be patient and give him his space.Let him know that when he's ready to talk you will be there for him.