Was it cheating or were we just friends with benefits?
I have been seeing this guy for 4 months, it started out as short dating which lead to a fling. Then we both got feelings for each other and decided to call it off because neither of us wanted just friends with benefits nor a relationship.
Later we met at a party and things were back on. After a while I again decided we should end things since I was having feelings for him and I told him that and that I couldn't handle if he hooked up with someone else.
The break up only lasted a few days, and we were back on. During this time we became very close friends.
Recently I went away for 2 weeks and when I came back he 'accidently' without planning to, revealed to me that he had slept with someone else during that time.
I was very upset and felt betrayed, but did I really have the right to be? Was it just friends with benefits or did we actually have some sort of relationship? I still want the friendship but I'm not sure if I can forgive him.
I will also be leaving the country in 6 weeks and will be away for months, is it then worth the effort to try to forgive him?
What's Your Opinion?