Boyfriend going behind your back/ slander
Recently I found out that my ex spoke poorly of me during our entire relationship.We went out for about 8 months, and since we broke up mutual friends have been telling me things he said about me during our relationship. Here are some of them:
-he said I wasn't smart and he was intellectually superior to me. And he didn't know what he was doing with me.
-He said I was hot, and a good lay.
-When asked why he was still with me, he said because I was attractive and there was no one else to sleep with.
-I'm not looking to marry her.
He said these types of things to a lot of people. That's how I found out, since we have some mutual friends. I feel really hurt. Especially the attack on my intellect. I'm dyslexic and he knows that.
What do other people think? Would you be mad? And do you think our relationship was a sham? I'm just so upset and depressed. How could someone I loved say such things?
What's Your Opinion?