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Is my Ex-Girlfriend Bipolar?

Okay this really weird to ask, but I am looking for help. My girlfriend of a few months has dumped me for the second time in two weeks. Throughout... Show More

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  • If she was bipolar, she would also have frequent mood swings throughout hours, not just changing her mood over days. When she is happy, is she EXTREMELY elevated, almost to the point of restlessness? And after a few hours, does she plummet to the lowest of the low?

    You should really suggest for her to seek help, but NOT during a fight or something, make sure it's when you two are relaxed or holding each other or something.

    When she gets on medication, she should be x1000 better, honestly.

    If she already IS on medication, then she may need to switch the type she's using, or, and probably more likely, she needs to see a therapist to talk about her life, since her problem may not even be so much due to the chemicals in her brain. (This is IF she is already on meds.)

    • Hahah well she broke up with me already, but thanks for the answer. I guess the question is do I want to be with her again.

    • Mood swings within days is supposed to be something similar to bipolar but not. Bipolar in particular is mood swings usually over weeks or months, though sometimes over days. I'm sure it's something else when it changes by the hour. Not that it makes it any better, just saying.

What Girls Said 3

  • Well, first of all, people on the internet can't diagnose your (ex)gf with bipolar disorder.

    But anyways, I am actually a non-medicated bipolar :): and she seems to have a lot in common with me, sadly. The back and forth in the relationship sounds exactly like something I would do.

    The signs are there...

    Why don't you just talk to her about it?

    • Thanks for the answer and I will probably talk with her about this but the breakup is too new.

  • Sounds like it could be something like bipolar disorder, depression (it's possible she was depressed the whole time but just tried to pull herself out of it every now and again, rather than it being a manic phase) or maybe borderline. But again, we're not doctors on here. All you can do is suggest she sees one ad leave it at that. If you want to be with her you'll need to support her through it and if not then leave her to it in peace.

    • Another option being that she was on medication for depression but didn't always take it. If there were bouts were she didn't take it she would have been moody etc but then perhaps if she started taking it again she started to get more loving towards you.

What Guys Said 1

  • Sounds like trouble, whatever her problem is. Bipolar, borderline personality disorder, who knows?

    Check out shrink4men.blogspot.com The site is by a female psychiatrist who writes about the damage that psycho chicks can do to men. A few years ago, I dated a girl who twisted my head around so bad I thought I'd never recover (I needed over a year to get over her). So I sympathize with your confusion. Shrink4man answered a lot of questions, and now I suspect that the girl I dated had some borderline traits...

    • 'Psycho chicks' happen to be human too, funnily enough

    • My bad: make that website address shrink4men.wordpress.com

    • TigerLily: I didn't deny that psycho chicks were human. And I meant "psycho" in the literal sense, as in women with serious psychiatric disorders.

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