Is it BAD if a guy asks for YOUR number instead of giving you HIS?
If a guy REALLY likes you, he would give you HIS number cause he wants you to call - right?
& If he does NOT it is cause he is worried you will call...
I see what everyone is saying, & I SUPPOSE that it would be rather confusing if two people ha numbers with no plan, cause you never know if the other person is NOT CALLING or just WAITING FOR YOU lol
The thing IS is that when we met,
we EXCHANGED numbers... & he ASKED me to call him BEFORE he called me ( actually when he DID call there was DISASTER with my room mates & he did not call back after that incident)
NOw he asked for my number. & I said :
" OR, I could call YOU "
He said :
" No - no , I'll call YOU "
So maybe he does not want me to call him? .. Tho the one difference, is he has a bunch of roommates now, lat time he lived a lone - Maybe THAT is it.
I Hope ^ ^
Most Helpful Guy
No, it's because he is worried he'll give you his number and you'll never call him. Plus, it's usually up to the guy to initiate, so what appears more confident to women and shows attraction? Asking for their number, which takes some courage and shows that you like them and would like to call them, or giving your number to some girl and just sitting back and hoping she calls you one day? I hope the guy you REALLY like doesn't come along one day and ask for your number, because I guess you aren't going to give it to him, right? :)
What Guys Said 2
ok you go the don't call me I'll call you... forget it
What Girls Said 6
I prefer they ask for my number just because when a guy drops off his number on a piece of paper, that really seems like he's just looking at me like I'm a booty call. Don't ask me why...I have more respect for guys who have the guts to ask for my number first.
No, I have to disagree. I have never met a guy that gave me his number without getting mine. It's more common for a guy to ask for a girl's number if they like them. Please don't assume that lol
NO! WRONG! Sorry, but I always give a guy my number and girls should do this. It proves...that if the guy is really THAT interested in you--he will call. If he dosen't you find out that he wasn't worth you're time. Also, when you give your number..you have the upper hand. Now on the flipside, when you take his number...you have to call him...and he may not be interested...
Don't sit around waiting for his call if he calls , he calls, that way you don't feel disappointed in the end if he doesn't call.
So this guy has your number?
Not necessarily , some guys ask for your number because they think if you take their number you would not call so insted they take your number and they do call, well for me they do, because usually if I take a guy's number that's because I'm not going to call him and I didn't give him my bacause I don't want him to call me.
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