How do I get a guy to tell me what he's looking for?

What's the best way to ask a guy what he wants without coming across as clingy and needy?

Most Helpful Opinion

  • Don't worry about whether you'll *come across* as clingy or needy. You either are or you aren't, and eventually he'll find out so don't bother trying to hide it if you are. Just be up front, and say you wanna know where things are heading so you wanna know what he's looking for.