I think I have a stalker (kind of), what should I do?
So this guy in my class told me earlier today that he has a crush on me, but the conversation went to something innocent to me wondering if I should report him.
(H) I'm saying my I has been on you. Call it a crush but I've been digging it.
(M) I don't know what to say.
(H) It's more of what to do. And I can tell you that.
(M) Because I have a boyfriend.
(H) That's irrelevant to me. I wanna see you, should stop by here. I'm packing the kinda heat you need to upgrade to.
(M) I love what I have now
(H) you haven't seen what I'm packing
(M) I have no idea what you're talking about
(H) I want you to know something
(M) Know what
(H) you ain't get the pic
(M) No I hope it isn't an inappropriate pic
(H) Deff think it is considering I'm telling you that I find you damn sexy, want your take. Playing mr. nice don't get you no where
(M)I only see you as a friend and it's disrespectful to pursue someone that is happily in a relationship
(H) And I see you as a friend. Doesn't mean I can't be attracted to you.
(M) That's true, I'm not attracted to you though
(H) That's cool, again that don't mean I can't be! That's my point. Tell you what pic speak louder than words
(M) I get your point but I'll pass on the pic
(H)It's been sent...sent at 11:08am
(H) you get it...sent at 11:22am
(H) I'm so wrong though...11:37am
I did not respond to the last three texts, and I never received the picture.
What would you do in this situation?
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With a dude like this...ANY reply to his texts to him reads as:
"I have a shot with her, cauz she's talking to me although she has a bf"
Therefore, no matter how bothered or irritated you sound...remember that you ARE taking time to respond to him, a guy that has BLATANT interest in you...
...when you have a bf.
Do NOT respond to his messages...period.
Then he will back off.
"(M)I only see you as a friend and it's disrespectful to pursue somone that is happily in a relationship"
Normal people don't talk like this. What the hells wrong with you?
Anyway, no, you're not being stalked, and people will do this a lot. It happens, it's called being pervy, if you want. It's weird, slightly invasive and uncomfortable but you'll come across it plenty, it's usually if not always harmless, I wouldn't worry. You need to be firmer than 'I love my boyfriend', though, when it gets to that point. That's flabby. You need to tell the guy to f*** off, at least.
*smh* He's not stalking you... Stop being a "crazy"... Just tell him you are not interested in him, and tell him to stop calling you. Then ad him to your block list if you don't want to hear from him... Texting someone 3 time sin a half hour doesn't equate to stalking... Get over yourself.
It was texts? Meaning a phone..you must have some sort of interest in him, you gave him your number