Do guys think small lip rings, or small nose rings are "trashy" on girls? I have always wanted to get one of these, but my boyfriend absolutely refuses. He says he hates them and I definitely CAN NOT have one. :| It sucks because I've always wanted to have one to experience them, if that makes any sense. I like the way they look, and I think they would actually look good on me. I would want them small, and nothing huge. However, according to my boyfriend, I can't ever get one. Why not? Do you guys think they are trashy or something?
hehe, I'm the complete opposite and actually like piercings and not that fond of tattoos. I don't think they are trashy unless you go overboard with them and put like 50 earrings in one ear or nose that's just to much.
1st answer: its your body, you own it, not him, do what you want with it. 2nd answer: it may cause a conflict in your relationship with your boyfriend, possibly leading to a breakup. which is more important to you? your independence and right to make your own decisions? or how much you value your relationship, how willing are you to compromise one value to satisfy or safeguard another. you have to draw a line somewhere in between, and then decide which side of the line you are on. that's not always an easy thing to do, especially when you are young and relatively inexperienced. but you gotta start somewhere sometime, I say the earlier the better. you'll get better at it as you go, don't be afraid to make mistakes at first, itll happen. just make sure you don't go too far to one side or the other, otherwise you'll end up alone or as a doormat. (p.s.: get the small one, you don't want to look like a piece of gym equipment)