Symptoms of bulimia. Thinking that I'm not good enough because he said so. What should I do?
So, basically, I've been "with" this guy for at least 10-11 months now. And just recently, he started treating me strangely, I mean he'd blame me for... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Wow. Bad relationship. Leave, don't go back.
No one should be talking to you that way, that's disrespectful and insensitive, (also just putting it out there, there's no way. no way. that EVERYTHING. is your fault. that's just impossible.)
Personally, I don't think it's a great move to publicize relationship issues on social media, but that's just me. But anyways, if he just saw you as something "replaceable" he didn't love you. You don't replace people in your life. He just didn't appreciate what he had, and don't EVER think that just because someone left you it's because you weren't good enough. Not being someone's match is not an issue of who is better than who, it's who is good FOR who.
If even his friends say that, believe them.
And go eat. That's not healthy for you. Even if you're not hungry, go eat. (you're also not bulimic. that's when you eat a lot randomly and throw it all up)
What Guys Said 1
You guys are clearly not meant for each other. let him replace you. It will never be you, just remeber that.
What Girls Said 2
@he started treating me strangely, I mean he'd blame me for everything, twist the truth if I confront him about something, downgrading my self-value.. Mocking me, he even calls me "sick, crazy, idiot, stupid" and that my "capability of catching up to what people are saying is below the standard",
you don't love this subhuman person,. thinking you do is just a delusion., you need him to punish you. I don't know why you want to be punish but there's no other explanation. him liking you wouldn't proved anything that you liking yourself would prove 100 times faster.
loser him. get counseling.
btw bulemia is eating a ton. then fasting or puking. it doesn't mean you don't eat. that's stress or anorexia if you lose 25% of yor ideal body weight.