Is he sensitive or manipulative? Or am I a bitch?
I told my boyfriend how in therapy I realized why I'm so depressed. I lived my whole life a virgin saving my self for marriage and I want to date...
Oh and by the way he kept saying for me that he internalized it because he can't tell or hit me since that's what you normally do to unleash your anger wen someone upsets u
O.o I asked you to pick up breakfast you didn't I got annoyed and you got mad enough to wanna hit me?
I'm missing something right
I repeated that to him he just shrugged and said that's jus how he is
He went out last night to a party and hasn't hit me up since usually he says good night or good morning but nope nothing
Sorry for typos
Most Helpful Guy
Saying that your sex life with him is the root cause of your depression may not make him feel very good about things.
What Guys Said 3
Nah it just seems like you're asking a lot of him at the moment. I'll take it your age is right at 18-24, and for a guy it's a huge decision to decide to marry someone. So by you saying that's why you're depressed just seems really pushy (even though that's not what you say you want), and he will feel bad or feel obligated to marry you right now, just because you want something serious. That's what would run through his head anyway. I have no idea why he didn't get breakfast, but you still can't be angry with him because he didn't, it's not like he did it to annoy you. He waited 35 minutes for you atleast.
Long story short, your boyfriend is too shy and submissive. He's trying to think everything over right now, and it is hard having a close one go through therapy, especially when you think you're the reason for it. But you being bossy and demanding won't help, I understand you're the one who's having a tough time but you have to take his feelings into consideration too.
I hope your therapist is teaching you to how to solve your own issues rather than just being a support pillar that puts a band-aid on whenever you're feeling down.
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