I told my boyfriend how in therapy I realized why I'm so depressed. I lived my whole life a virgin saving my self for marriage and I want to date seriously and we kind of aren't so I have been sad within myself and depressed (low self esteem) he knows I was religious when we met
So anyway he had nothing to say which hurt because I'm expressing something essential I feel I'm ofc not pressuring him to marry me I just am expressing how untrue I have been to MYSELF and the progress I made and therapy which I clarified for him
Never the less he got very grumpy and ignored me for hours on the fone until I just fell asleep
The next morning I asked him to pick up breakfast before we meet and he didn't even though he waited for me for 35 mins
I got very annoyed and he got very angry like weird all mad sensitive
I kept cooing at him since my being annoyed makes him mad which in the end he started crying
I don't understand how you can b mad at me for being annoyed or mad at you but neverthe less to cry ?
I got him tissue and he confessed he thinks I'm bossy
I explained that ifhe feels that way he shld saybsoninstead of crying because we have to keep each other in check if I screw up correct me but crying? I want to respect him and I will more so if he speaks to me wen I offend him instead of internalizing it being bratty
(He kept being like meh don't touch me and walking far behind me when he was mad)
Is this man just sensitive, immature, manipulative because he just didn't want to pick up breakfast and was too chicken to admit it so felt the need to victimize himself?, or am I really such a bitch I drove the poor sorrowful man to tears being a bit bratty and bossy I ofc will accept responsibility for my wronging I shldnt have cooed at him but his reaction is very alarming
O.o I asked you to pick up breakfast you didn't I got annoyed and you got mad enough to wanna hit me?
I'm missing something right
I repeated that to him he just shrugged and said that's jus how he is
He went out last night to a party and hasn't hit me up since usually he says good night or good morning but nope nothing
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Saying that your sex life with him is the root cause of your depression may not make him feel very good about things.