Why haven't I heard anything from him?
I met a guy about a week ago and gave him my number 3 days ago. I heard he was excited to talk to me but he only text me a few times the day I gave him my number. I know I didn't say anything to scare him away and it's kind of odd since he was so excited to get to know me. What's going on?
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What Guys Said 2
Ok here's some truth, for someone like me I usually prefer to text. I over think everything and I would not want to scare you away. Sometimes guys sit around and plan out a convo. He may just be shy. what does he say in the text messages?
could be a number of things. maybe he got nervous. maybe he's waiting a few days to see if you try to talk to him, wondering if your actually interested in him or not. couldn't hurt to send a simple "whats up?" text to him. if I were him, I wouldn't be over bearing, but I would at least hollar at you every couple of days at the least. just rememer its only been a week since you met him. he could be shy and like to take things slow. it doesn't sound like he'd hit it off with you like that just to blow you off. did he ask for your number? or did you offer it to him? if your comfortable with it, just text " hi " or "whats up?" , something along those lines. traditionally the guy is supposed to make the first moves in some peoples opinions, but maybe he needs that little boost of encouragement. take a chance and hollar at him, just be casual about it. I suck at relationships but I hope I was of some help. good luck : )
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