I made the mistake of sleeping one time with a guy who was just a friend. Before this all happened he was pretty cool and we got along. Now I’m... Show More
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I will say that having sex with someone can definitely send a mixed signal, and it sounds like you realize this and accept responsibility.
That being said, there is no way to keep him away until you tell him directly that you have no interest in continuing any kind of relationship with him. And I do mean ANY.
If it's to the point that you believe you or your daughter lives are in danger, then letting him know in black and white language that he is no longer allowed to contact you is the only way to ensure he gets the message.
Trying to be light hearted in this situation will only allow him to "interpret" what you're saying as something else.
Once you have told him to stay away, if he continues to contact you, you then have legal grounds to apply for a protection order. Law Enforcement agencies have become very responsive to these kinds of scenarios, because it is well known that these kind of fall outs can lead to someone being harmed.
If your words are not enough to keep him away, then his being escorted from your residence in hand irons every time he arrives will get it across.