God-damnit, Reeses, you just don't stop, do you? You're always asking questions and you write them out of words made up of letters and for you the anger and disappointment just never ceases. Maybe you should think about our user experience a little more before just wondering about things out loud. For christ's sake. Buffoonery!
Well you'd have to be more specific like give an example or whatever because its hard to tell but it might actually be you that's taking it the wrong way. Like are you sure people aren't just joking around and you might just see it or hear it the wrong way then take it offensively. If this kinda thing has happened a few times then people might think that you can't take things seriously and might actually treat you bad just because of what you have done. So what I could tell you is if people seem like they are getting mad at you just play it off or say something that will call them out and joke around about it because it's not anything that's too serious nor will it ruin/end your life so why treat it like that. Bring some humour into your life and don't act depressed and down on yourself because that's not going to change things. YOU have to be the one to change things.