It's all about proportioning. A lot of women get their lips done, but I think they look terrible. Their lips look fake & they are not proportioned with the rest of their face. What is the obsession with having Angelina Jolie lips. I think too many people are too obsessed with their looks...
I like small lips, and I don't mind if they're soft or firm, both are great. I really love lipgloss.
I prefer full lips. If a woman doesn't have that then that's ok.
It really doesn't matter, I look at the face as a whole, so the lips have to fit the rest of the face. About lipgloss, I don't like it as girls tend to carry it around and put it on every 5mins, but it can look good.