What should you do when a guy puts his arm around you?

I don't do anything and I don't want to dissuade him from doing it again. We were walking and he put his arm around my shoulder for about 10 seconds. He did it again the next time I saw him, but for a little longer. He's just a friend, but I have feelings for him. Also, what should I take from his gesture? He's been touching me more lately (hair, arms, and shoulders) and he's usually pretty shy.


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  • you should smile and put your hand either in his(the one that's around you ofcourse) or place it somewhere on his arm that lets him know you want to keep it there

    hope this helps b^_^d

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      This pretty much covers it.

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      Thanks! I'll try that if he ever does again.

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      your welcome :)