How do you get a shy girl to go out with you?
I like shy girls. What are some things a guy can do to win the heart of a shy girl?
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You have to give some indication that you are interested without making yourself seem like a stalker. If you are to approach a shy girl, act kind of like a shy guy yourself. I don't mean that exactly, but talk quietly, don't be all loud and crack stupid jokes. Just light talking and clues that you like her is a great start. Go slowly. . . don't just come up and say, do you want to go out with me? Get to know her, first kind of like a friend (not exactly but you know what I mean) then as time goes on she will get more personal and it will not be as difficult for her to open up to you. But you have to make a move first. Coming from a shy girl, I never make the move.
What Girls Said 1
you HAVE to make the first move, if she is as shy as me all she will do is try to look cute for a boy. She has to know, and when she does she will probably tell her friends try and find out from her friends and if she does you bust a move!
What Guys Said 1
SHOW that you're interested in her. Smile at her, compliment her all that good stuff.