What Guys Said 2
You're not giving me any details on your situation...
What Girls Said 1
It has nothing to do with being interested or not. Mind games are utilized as a form of control i.e. to guarantee having control over you using manipulation. You know you are played when you over-analyze and you receive mixed signals from the guy. When he says one thing and does another. When you are forced to do things you don't want to do. When you are so attached to him thinking you can't live without him yet feeling unhappy.