If a Woman tells her ex to stop isn't he supposed to stop? How can I tell my kid's father to quit harassing me? He grabs at me and tries to sneak kisses on me and I don't like it :(. I have no sexual interest towards him but he keeps trying to advance me. And its hard cause I live with him and he does have a temper to the point I call the police. I told him that I'm not into him but he keeps bugging me for any sexual activity.I gave him my body before but he degrades it and now that I'm in a friends with benefits he still thinks he can get my body :( please help
Aw man, you have kids with him? Smh. Tough situation. Dude feels like you are still his "property". It's messed for sure, but you have kids with him so its hard to get him completely out of your life. I would be blunt. Like real, real blunt to the tune of: I'm not dealing you anymore. I have no feeling towards you at all. If he's violent call the cops...moral of the story: don't mess with lames.
Just for the hell of it I'm going to assume you ether do not work or you do not have much money. It's so easy for people to say do this or that it's hard when it's you that doing the doing. It's hard to live with some one that you used to love and make love to. Now no more then roommates some people can't or won't change. Unfortunately For your and your children's safety you should start looking for a change in housing
You put yourself in that position by staying with him. Go to a shelter or to family with your kids until you have enough money to go on your own, or you'll have to put up with it cause he's not going to magically stop. And the next time he sexually harrasses you, call 911 FIRST, then protect yourself to the fullest. Kick him in the nuts so hard that his eyes roll in the back of his head & by the time he comes to, the police will be there.
Sexual predators deserve to be Bobbitted, so that's also a solution. If he doesn't have one, he won't have the urge to use it..