Or do they find them repulsive? I've been talking to a guy a lot recently and I am overweight so I can't tell if he's talking to me just to be nice...
Or do they find them repulsive? I've been talking to a guy a lot recently and I am overweight so I can't tell if he's talking to me just to be nice or if he is really interested.
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Guys like women of all shapes and sizes Some guys like the projected media image type women and other men like women on the complete other side. The media will tell you that you have to be a certain way and have a certain look, but it's a bunch of bologna. The key issue is health. If you're unhealthy, overly skinny or seriously over weight, then there's a problem. But as long as you're healthy there will be a guy who will find you attractive. Be confident and be yourself and you can't go wrong.
As for your guy, well I can't tell you exactly what he's thinking obviously. However, if you think he's a good guy and doesn't come off as a jerk, and he's showing signs he might be interested, then unless he's a jerk and leading you on, he most likely is interested in you to at least some degree.
idk but I loved fat girls since I was 4 I always liked the big girls but for some reason was never able to date one not because of who I am because of them being afraid of it being a bet because guys and girls out there believe that all girls need to be skinny I hate people who hate fat girls I'm skinny and is still I like big girls and not ashamed of it I told many I like all girls but just love big girls more
Generally speaking... no. Guys are dominantly attracted through visual contacts and because of the girls hotness... it triggers guys to check you out and more likely approaching. You see models of girls in the magazine that are considered hot and guess what? They are either mostly fit, lean, and skinny. This is an evidence and indication to show how beauty standards are portrayed in today's society. So if you are a fat girl you will either end up with a fat guy, an ugly guy, or a loser guy. You will never end up with a hot aesthetic athletic guy like you see in a magazine. If you do, he will 99% most likely going to deceive you.
Ok it doesn't matter on your weight. My guys friends make fat comments all the time to other girls and I say hey i am a big girl, knock it off, and then they tell me that they don't see my weight cause my attitude and personality are awesome. So with that said, be yourself and the weight won't matter at all! My boyfriend is a skinny and he has never been with a big girl till me, and we said it doesn't make a difference and he loves me for me not my weight.
Not all guys are like that tho but you shouldn't change for a guy. You are the weight you are for your own reasons and never, never let anyone judge you for it.
I couldn't resist this question because I was always trying to second guess guys' reasons for talking to me. If the guy is talking to you to be nice, why care maybe he doesn't want a relationship right now, if he is interested in a relationship, wow lucky you!
95% of guys are repulsed by them. No guy wants to be seen with the fat chick, they feel they loose cool points and look ridiculous. Like they can't do better. Are you fat? Lose weight, maybe I'm sounding harsh but we live in a world where we are judged 90% on looks and 10% on personality, ESPECIALLY at our age. It's possible though for fat men to seek fat women because they are easier to score, see both can't do better so they find each other like magnets. Same goes for guys who are on the loser/dorky side. Can't get a "hot girl" so they settle for the fat girl or dorky/loser girl. Of course it's also easier for fat guys to get pretty girls just because guys have it easier so that's a variable.
This changes when people get older and it's common to see fat women in their 40's and 50's getting some (finally) because really at that age everyone is deteriorating so who cares? Unless you live in Hollywood and can afford cosmetic surgery with Dr 90210 then you can continue being hot and sexy and dating other cosmetically enhanced hot sexy 40 year olds. Hell maybe a 25 year old will do you because the surgery is that amazing.
You know the saying 'Fat girls are grateful for it'.