i like skinny guys but I probably look around 14pounds or more bigger than them does this matter or do they want girls skinnier than them or the same?
maybe more than 14lbs 20 being the most
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not sure you'd call me skinny. I'm kind of bony but more average build. I personally have no problems with a woman who is heavier than I am. I've been attracted to a lot of women who were bigger than I was by more than 20 lbs.
One thing you have to remember though is that weight is different between men and women. A guy who is 5'6" will have a weight around 130-150 or so, but a woman the same height will normally weigh less. For what difference it makes.
I honestly don't let weight play an issue. I'm simply attracted to the person or I'm not. Weight only matters if she's over like 300lbs or something where she's just too over weight. Or if she's like really skinny and a skeleton. Generally you'd have to say she is healthy. I don't buy into the whole media idea of the size 0 being the only thing that's attractive. In fact it makes me very annoyed because several women are labeled as fat when they ARE NOT!
Just be yourself and don't think about the weight and you will find a guy you like who likes you too.
I myself am a light frame build guy. I stand at 5"10 and weigh 150. And personally, I don't mind at all if the girl is a bit on the heavy side. I actually find curvy women attactive. Most people just don't realize that a good deal of their body weight comes from bone structure. So weight to me is hardly the issue. The issue is proportionality, that is, if your hips are x big then your waist have to be y large. Simple enough. It's all about a woman's curve and proportion to most men, even to the ones that don't realize this. They say to themselves that women looks attractive, but don't know why.
Lastly, even though weight isn't a concern. It's a good idea to make an effort to excercise and show that you have a good/healthy life style. That's always a plus. I hope this helps
Depends...I do go out with heavier women...but for the most part, I am picky about bodies...I look good in the nude and I don't want to see a woman nude that is ashamed of her body...If you noticed, I work like hell on that...and it isn't easy
there are a lot of real skinny guys that are attracted to large women. everyone has their own taste. one person may think big is gross then there are others who don't see anything wrong with them at all and less judgemental. there is someone for everyone
One of my brother's is probably the skinniest dude I know, and he has a bigger girl than him. I don't think he cares. She's really down to earth,so I guess that's what he likes. I don't think guys really care unless they're really into looks. 14 pounds, to me isn't really nothing.
yeah that's okay. Some guys don't care how much you weigh. But some are attracted to small skinny girls. But that doesn't mean you can't find a guy. Good luck! and as long as you have a nice face they will fall in love with you!