Will skinny guys get with girls who are bigger than them?
i like skinny guys but I probably look around 14pounds or more bigger than them does this matter or do they want girls skinnier than them or the same?
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I'm not sure you'd call me skinny. I'm kind of bony but more average build. I personally have no problems with a woman who is heavier than I am. I've been attracted to a lot of women who were bigger than I was by more than 20 lbs.
One thing you have to remember though is that weight is different between men and women. A guy who is 5'6" will have a weight around 130-150 or so, but a woman the same height will normally weigh less. For what difference it makes.
I honestly don't let weight play an issue. I'm simply attracted to the person or I'm not. Weight only matters if she's over like 300lbs or something where she's just too over weight. Or if she's like really skinny and a skeleton. Generally you'd have to say she is healthy. I don't buy into the whole media idea of the size 0 being the only thing that's attractive. In fact it makes me very annoyed because several women are labeled as fat when they ARE NOT!
Just be yourself and don't think about the weight and you will find a guy you like who likes you too.
What Guys Said 5
There is nothing wrong with a larger woman as long as she is proportional. WindChaser was right on the money.
I definitely prefer curvier women. I'd rather have a woman that was heavier/thicker than myself than a woman who is skinnier anyday. But every guy is different.
It's your confidence in yourself that matters the most because it will radiate to any guy.
I myself am a light frame build guy. I stand at 5"10 and weigh 150. And personally, I don't mind at all if the girl is a bit on the heavy side. I actually find curvy women attactive. Most people just don't realize that a good deal of their body weight comes from bone structure. So weight to me is hardly the issue. The issue is proportionality, that is, if your hips are x big then your waist have to be y large. Simple enough. It's all about a woman's curve and proportion to most men, even to the ones that don't realize this. They say to themselves that women looks attractive, but don't know why.
Lastly, even though weight isn't a concern. It's a good idea to make an effort to excercise and show that you have a good/healthy life style. That's always a plus. I hope this helps