I noticed in life that 95% of my friends married the Perfect Stranger. Every girl that I already knew before I dated didn't last. But the Perfect Stranger lasted.
The Perfect Stranger is someone you never seen before, you never knew they existed, but there was attraction and love at first site when you first saw them.
This love at first site could have been at a party, work, or vacation, etc. I married the perfect stranger and been happily married for 5+ years.
I also noticed that the 5% of my friends who married someone they already knew for years got divorced already.
Is your Fiance/Spouse the "Perfect Stranger"?
- No, I already knew my current Fiance/Spouse before I dated themVote A
- My current Fiance/Spouse is the Perfect StrangerVote B
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If you had sparks when you met, you'd already be dating. That's the truth of it.
If you date someone when you've already known them for a while, it's because you are comfortable with them. Not the same sparks. None of that same feeling of fresh attraction as when you meet someone new. That history can be good or bad.
My fiancee is a "perfect stranger". And really, she's more attractive to me than any girl I know that I would have been interested in.2