I have recently heard a few phrases from a nowadays philosopher about his views on a "happy marriage", and until now I'm feeling a bit bothered about that. Mainly because I'm afraid he is tottaly right...and that worries me significantly.According to your life experience and wiseness, could you tell me if he is right or not?
He said:" A man , in order to become a good husband, must have no significant trait/quality. He must be a meek, tame one. Woman bear up good traits/quality in mistress ones. But a man shall be 'nothing' to marry. Regarding to woman, for a woman to be happy in a marriage, to be a good wife, she cannot have personality. Because a woman with strong personality is only for mistress, a wife with strong personality is unbearable."
PS: Please be as frank as you can be. This philosopher is known for saying politically incorrect saying, that most people would not have courage to admit it even by themselves. So use anonymous, but please only tell me the truth.
- Yes , I could only bear simple and meek woman/man as a wife/husbandVote A
- No, I couldn't bear simple and meek wife/husbandVote B
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Well, my advice to you is that you and your wife MUST be loyal to each other. You should truly love each other for who you are. The philosopher was wrong. You fell for that person because of their personality. Not fully on their looks! In a relationship, no one should act as a robot and no one should act fake either. You should act the way you fell in love with that person. You can make your relationship as fun, unique, etc as you want as long as you and your partner are comfortable/ okay with it.
Your relationship is a 'thing' between you and your partner. Do what you think is right. If you think some things wrong, maybe you could talk it out with your partner or something.
That's what you guys are supposed to do. Help each other out, good or bad. Stay loyal to them and no matter what happens, hold on to them, help them and love them. :)0