if a husband has another woman behind his wife. he and that woman has a stable relationship, and the husband is not attracted to the wife anymore, does that mean the husband doesn't love the wife anymore? or he just wanna find some excitement?
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It means he never knew what love meant and never loved her to begin with. Love isn't attraction and isn't lust and isn't a temporary occurrence. And no affair can be considered a "stable relationship" because it is causing instability especially if there are kids involved. Excitement? A man who does that is looking for a temporary high; it has nothing to do with love. So know he probably doesn't love his wife, and he probably never did. If you an affair and cheat on your wife, the women who you promised to love forever, who you share with, who in some situations may have planned her life around those promises, than you clearly never loved her enough to keep those feeling maintained. If you can be such an a** than yeah noo.1