My boyfriend is 14 years older than me. I'm 23. He doesn't have kids. We both want marriage and a family. We have a lot in common like religious and cultural and education wise. He is the kindest most respectful guy I ever met. I've dated a lot of bad men and he's truly a good one. He's so amazing and I can't even believe I found him.
Married women told me that you just know when he's the one and there will probably be something different about him compared to the other guys you've dated. One woman told me her husband had the character she always wanted but a totally different look than she thought she would like.
For me it's his age. I was hesitant at first date but then everything else about him ended up being so amazing. And I feel in my heart that I can see my life with this man and I never knew that feeling before.
I know there will be age gap challenges. Am I crazy? It's not like he's 20 years older and there's no kids involved or any major immediate problems. I'm also not a kid anymore I am self sufficient and work and will be done with my graduate education very soon.
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My parents age gap is a little wider than yourrrelationship and they lasted.
They got married almost 45 years ago and are still in love. I personally highly doubt I would ever be with a man so much older, and I think the majority are just disgusting old men preying on young girls, but there are definitely the rarer cases where it is just 2 people who are really compatible despite the age gap.
I'm lucky my dad looks at least 20 years younger than his is though, people always think my parents are the same age. It's kind of embarrassing really, I don't really like people knowing my dad was some big old man who got with my young mum and stuff... Idk, that's just me though, and my mum was also younger than you when they met, so it's different.
But yea, these relationshipstatus definitely can work. People might look at you funny in the street, or family and friends might try to convince you to find somebody your own age, but these are things that are easily worked through if you're both 100% in it.0