How big can a challenge be??!!!

Ok if you already have a girlfriend (who you live with but have problems with) and at work you meet a really pretty girl that is very sweet and nice to you, but that always is a challenge because she is unreachable and only flirts with you a bit because she knows you are engaged would you leave your current girlfriend to try to get with the unreachable and if you did was it just to prove to yourself that you still have game or would it be because you care for her more than what you thought?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • If you're going to leave your girlfriend/fiance, it should be for the right reasons. If you're unhappy with her and don't want to be with her anymore or just can't picture yourself with her forever, then you should break up with her. There's no point in staying with her because you'll always think about leaving and will always be looking for something better and will always wonder "what if." If the only reason you can think of wanting to leave her is because of another woman, that really doesn't make much sense. Think about it, it's a huge risk. This other girl may not want to be with you, but not just that, you'd be losing your girlfriend. I would think about why you're thinking about leaving your girlfriend before thinking about another girl.

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What Girls Said 3

  • If you left it would probably be just to prove to yourself that you could still conquer a girl. If you're unhappy then you should leave for that reason.

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  • I think if you are already thinking about it you might as well leave your girlfriend now. You're talking about trying to prove you still got it by trying to leave with some girl you work with...it sounds like the relationship is over anyway. Think about what if your girlfriend thought the grass was greener on the other side? It may look good because you and your current girl are having problems but that can happen with anyone. If she means anything to you you should forget about the work girl and try to work it out. If not then break up with her so you can do what you want.

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  • Don't leave. Maybe you have issues with your current girlfriend because deep down she knows you think about leaving. Sometimes us ladies act out when we know a guy's heart isn't totally with us. You should at least try to work it out with this current girl and if you can't let her down gently. Now about the other girl... you call her untouchable but it isn't 100% that she will "fall into your arms" if you leave your current girl. She may think you are a jerk,or she may have someone who she's in love with at that time. You shouldn't base whether you leave or stay on this one girl.. Because like all humans she is unpredictable.

    Good luck.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Well you did say that she only flirts with you because she knows you're engaged. I wouldn't see the point in leaving the girl that you're gonna marry for this girl that you don't know.

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