My fiance and I are having an arranged marriage. We've known each other for six months but we haven't kissed or talked about sex yet. Should we have sex on the wedding night or should we get to know each other on a deeper level first? We're both virgins and in our early 20s.
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If my wife didn't want to have sex on our wedding night I would be deeply offended. If you haven't consummated the marriage then I wouldn't even consider you actually married. That would basically be like her telling me, she didn't agree with the marriage and rejects me as her husband. That might be okay with him, if he isn't ready to marry you either. Otherwise it sounds like a bad way to start a marriage.1