Would you lose respect for her, or understand that was just her personality & nature?
- I'd think less of her20% (1)40% (4)33% (5)Vote
- I'd respect her20% (1)40% (4)33% (5)Vote
- I couldn't care less60% (3)20% (2)34% (5)Vote
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I would respect her. Unless she thought I already knew, then she would have had to take a very brave step to make those feelings known.
In any relationship, if it is to work well and satisfy both mentally and physically for both sides there needs to be respect and acceptance. We are all different and probably we can only hope that when we are with someone most of our tastes align. Never will they all. Plus its give and take and compromise. One common example is the guy wants anal sex, the woman doesnt. Is he selfish to want it or is she selfish not to? Neither. One or other, if there is respect will compromise. If there is no compromise, there is likely little respect. With submissive behaviour the same applies. If the woman or man wishes to be submissive, then their partner will either welcome it, in which case respect and the need is already in place... reject it, in which case respect is not there... or perhaps more commonly a middle ground perhaps a little initial or long term awkwardness may be evident but a compromise or accomodation of would prevail.1