Okay I'm a little pissed, my grandmother said since she raised me she'd buy my wedding dress but two days later said she didn't have the money for the dress I wanted (it's a 169$) but yesterday she spent 150 on a dog that she didn't need and it's not even a pure bred so I don't get why she spent that much money on it anyway... Point is, is it okay for me to be upset about this, I'm also upset with her because she keeps looking at prom dresses for me to get married in because most of them are on around 50-70 bucks, I feel like she's trying to do everything she can to make sure my wedding is the worst, I'm almost temped to just go to good will buy a dress and get married in the court house... I don't want a big wedding just my fiance, me, my best friend and his cousins fiance standing with him, we only want close family and friends so no more then 15-25 people... Am I acting like a brat? or is she being controlive?
Do I have any right?
What Guys Said 1
Hear hear kid, hear hear0
What Girls Said 3
You're too young to be getting married. I know it, you know it, we all know it. You're too young right now to be deciding if this guy is your soul mate and to plan out your whole future with him. I think you don't take weddings seriously. There is a lot involved. Let's face it, your grandma is probably just not buying you a wedding dress because she knows you're too young to be married in this day and age. Sure she may have got married at a young age? But she probably doesn't want you togo through the same thing and actually sees potential in you.
Wait until you got a stable job and can pay some bills for a while. Live with the guy for a bit. Raise a dog with him. Then you'll see in a couple of years if he's husband material and still worth marrying.
Btw, don't be a spoiled brat to your grandmother. She's your grandmother ffs. Dont worry about some purchase she made on a dog, thats her own decision and choice.1
stop depending on your grandma to buy you a wedding dress and save up to buy your own. you're like 12, you should be worried about her buying you One Direction tickets and school books. if you're grown as you think you are, buy your own dream dress and pay for your own wedding. sorry but you do sound bratty and she has every right to be 'controlive' when it comes to a child.1
Wait... how old are you? lol0
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