Although this question for all women, but is targeted towards the fiercely independent and competitive women who have a strong opinion that they don't want to get married/ have a partner because they feel that the marriage will put an end to a career they have been building.
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I have heard that women can't do both family and career and if it is like this I choose career. That's why it's not one of my goals to find a good partner, but if I know someone who is compatible, I wouldn't say no. But my goal areonly career oriented and everything I do is about it.
This is like asking asking: Do you like working alone or with a group? If I think that the group is slowing me down, I like working alone. One thing that I know is that I would never marry a man who is less successful than me, those relationships simply don't function. I need someone who I adore I want to learn from him, to become like him, otherwise I start criticising him, hurt his ego, and the reltionship would fall apart.
I like to have a child (two are a lot for me), but in my own way. I wouldn't be a typical nurturing mum, but I would offer the child a sense of belonging and make him/her feel special. Idon't like to change napkins, I only like to learn things to the child to be ready and prepared for everything. Make them introduce their friends, make sure they are not a loser, help the child to do homework, motivate them and make sure they are happy. However, I don't think that I would want a child without a husband.
So, to sum it up, if I found someone who was compatible with me and helped me insted of slowing me down, I would get married. But never only because of lonileness.0