Like they ended up marrying someone they shouldn't have?
And is it true that you don't realize what the person is truly like until you start to live with them?
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I think it takes several years to really figure someone out. If you think you have someone figured out in a matter of months, then you want to marry them, you are a shallow person. People have many layers to them and we are really complex creatures. No way can you have someone figured properly out enough to want to marry them after a short relationship.1