I am Christian but I don't necessarily know if it's the best thing to wait. Or if it would effect my marriage.
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I sure hope you make that decision based on something more than the results of an internet question.
Even Christians disagree on this. But here is something that I have noticed about the bible, that almost nobody I know talks about.
there are no wedding ceremonies. sure, there are wedding feasts, but no ceremony. yet there is talk about marriage and adultery all over the place. At one point in the book of Genesis, it says "Isaac took Rebecca into his tent and made her his wife." So it seems to me, that in biblical times at least, the act of sex is what made you married. So, while people disagree about premarital sex today, I think someone who wants to be "open minded" but still honestly consider Christian principles would at the very least begin with the premise that sex is to be reserved for very serious committed relationships. And to be honest, I doubt if any male your age is serious enough.1