So there's this guy that I've known for a little over a year. We've hung out a few times. He has asked me to hang out a few other times but I haven't been able to because of other things going on. We still talk often but he hasn't asked me to do anything in awhile. I think he likes me but I'm worried that he might be thinking that I don't like him. I do like him. How do I let him know that I like him? Should I be the one to ask him to hang out? Also, how do I know if the reason he hasn't asked me out is because he's over me, and not just because he thinks I don't like him?
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Russian (see below) is probably right. If you say "no" enough times, any decent and reasonably-sane guy will get the hint and assume that you actually mean "no." Then we'll stop asking you out.
In your case, you only turned him down because you were busy with other things... so tell him that! Asking him out is good, or you could belatedly accept one of the dates he proposed. For example, if he asked you to go get coffee, say something like "I'm finally done with [thing you were busy with that sounds time-consuming]. Still want to get coffee? I'm free on Tues and Wed afternoons [or whatever]."0