My girlfriend and I have been dating now for 4mos. We blossomed into a beautiful, strong and mutually supportive relationship from very early on. I am in the process of packing up my things this week because I will be moving in with her in 2 days.
Let me start by saying, I know it's only been 4mos now, and we have a big age gap, i'm 25 and she's 33. I love this woman like no other though, we just click perfectly. We both feel as if we have known each other for years, it is very surreal. The feeling is definitely mutual. She tells me all the time just how madly in love she is with me, how I complete her and so. We have spent A LOT of time together. I KNOW she is the woman for me, my soulmate per se. I just know. I want her to be my wife, I want to marry her. I've never been this damn committed before. We are going out of town this weekend to meet a group of girlfriend's of hers that she's never met before and I am planning on going out to buy the ring today and proposing to her in our hotel room on Saturday night. I'm ready, but is this the wrong weekend? Her meeting her friend's and all?
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If you are that ready to totally commit to her, I'm happy for you and you should marry her!
All the friends could be a distraction. It might be too much on her mind. You want her to be able to focus on the event if it's something she'd need to think about.
However, if you've already been talking with her about your future, and that is something I would highly recommend, then she knows that you're thinking about marrying her and you probably know that she'd say yes. If that's the case then pop the question before the friends get there.2