Well my boyfriend, who i love very much, and is super smart, flips burgers with bad earnings. I've been raised to marry an educated man. And i love him bit he refuses to go to school. Then complains he doesn't make enough. I offer to pay for his college, he thinks he doesn't need it and he can live on with min. wayge. he is working 12 hours a day and physically taking a toll on him. If he goes to school, for example, to be the boss of a burger flipper, life would be easier. He lives with his sister, and has no car. I am deeply in love with him and we are planning to get married. But I don't know if i can marry someone who isn't educated... i asked him if he would hate it if i made more, he said no. Thats not good
financial competition bwtween couples is good, makes both stride to earn more for the family. My family is rich cuz both my parents are highly educated and compete with their checks. I want to raise a family with this man, but I don't know if i can do it... please tell me what should i do? I love him, he graduated high school st 16, so he CAN get a degree without an issue. But he wants to stay s burger flipper. Im scared. I don't know what to do!
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You can't change a guy into doing something you want it will never work not saying you are because your out for his best interest to where he's not thinking long term he only is thinking of right now i dont think you should marry him until you guys have more as a couple its important you guys have a car and are stable more not just on your part but his part he can't always count on you when it comes to taking him to work and back he needs more motivation maybe talking to someone who influeces him the most to help him realize school is important in life but at the same time no needs to go to school to be smart they just need to have drive and motivation to do more in life or want better he's so used to everything being easy he may not realize life is hard to maintain working something with less in come and less things to gain from working a job flipping burgers in a way he has to be a man just like ur being women enough to handle ur business dont let anyone stand in your way because ik how much you love your bf and i do think you should stay with him but i do thin u should worry about protecting yourself and taking care of yourself once your stable with a place and a car then have him stay with you but before that if he not motivated i would fill out job apps for him and try to get him to see there is better for him and there's a lot of people who would loved working with him and having him work for them0