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honestly, I don't think I could but not because waiting is a bad thing, because it's not.if anything, I admire someone who can wait.i just need to see if there's that connection, heat, chemistry, and trust.i felt all that when I had my first.my first time was the best sex I've ever had because of the feelings that were there and all the emotions.he felt it too.he was the first one to say something about it.i need to feel that again and I don't think I could feel that just by kissing, holding hands, talking, etc. I would need everything before I'm willing to give myyy everything for life to him.let's clear it up though, waiting until marriage is DEFINITELY not a bad thing.
Yeah, I would.
Depends on the guy and if I think he's worth waiting for.
Yes I would. I think saving yourself for the person you marry is pretty deep. Doing so may create a stronger bond and connection between the couple in the relationship. Although marriage isn't guaranteed success, I don't believe in worrying about the worst case scenario, that being divorce. For me, when I get married someday, I'm not going to go into the marriage unsettling myself about whether we're going to become another marriage statistic. It's better to just enjoy each other and hope for the best. Yeah, marriage isn't smooth sailing all the time. Sometimes people drift apart. It happens. But why cross that bridge before you get to it? If a guy wants to wait until marriage to have sex, I don't see an issue. It's possible to base a relationship on other forms of intimacy. Whether it's a religious value or a moral decision, I'd respect it, for I'd hope someone would do the same for me. Just my opinion.
50% of marriages end in divorce. So if I have to hold out for a guy, get married then have sex then divorce it wasn't worth it. I don't think I could.. I want to be a whole with that someone before I got married which we had a base of 5 to 10 years on us.
Yes, I would.
I would respect him a lot but I would only date him if I was looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage. If I did date him we couldn't be together for like 5 years or something, that would have to be a short engagement lol. A guy like that I would want to be married to him soon...idk if I could wait that long and I consider myself tame/slightly prudish. I would probably corrupt him or something lol
Yeah. I wanted to wait, too. But then I got disillusioned with the idea of marriage altogether. I'd probably date you, though... if you weren't such a douchebag ;)
My wife's aunt did. She regretted it.
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