Iv been in my marriage for 6 years I dated my wife for about 18/24mths before we got hitched.
She's become a steady complacent person goals yes still kinda the same but attraction seems to be dying out. She's let her self go from a size zero she's gone up a couple size nothing excessive but all she wants now are kids and that's it. No more little black dresses or sitting there in a mall laughing at people or pushing herself in work life. And fair enough she confident in her looks herself lol she moans loads about everything
Now on the other hand iv had soooo much interest from these 2 girls for like over a yr and noo I have not done anything and yes the grass in not always greener etc. they a both stunning but looks Neva last so I'm not bring that into this.
Maybe marriage is not for everyone?
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I haven't seen situations like what you're thinking of (dumping a wife for a hot replacement) work out very often.
I do understand your frustration, and yes, you have a right to have your needs met and to have your concerns heard, but I think if I were you, I'd do everything possible to work things out with your wife.
And yes, you do need to realize that what makes a marriage work long-term is not the same thing as what produces instant attraction. The second one fades, the first doesn't.2