I never lived the life as the hot and sexy guy I want to 'fuck' type.
I am the marriage material.
I just watched an interview with Conan O'Brien and Chelsea Lately where she talks about how she likes to have sex and not to wait for it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heWJYtdZcPY
Sometimes, I kind of regret and wonder whether I should had tried harder to be the guy who had fun before getting married.
Though, sex is very important to me, I understand how marriage is sacred and it is very important to me, but my question is do you ever wonder whether you placed too much emphasis on the importance of chastity and purity--and that maybe sex isn't really that big of a deal?
I know that sex with someone who you really care about is the best because there is nothing like it due to the connection and the intimacy, but how about those people out there who have the first pick in sexual partners to have sex with whoever they want? What is that like?
- I prefer the hot 'fuck' materialVote A
- I prefer the reliable 'marriage' materialVote B
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A good relationship has a healthy balance of both. I've had a couple of casual sex experiences where there was physical attraction, but low mental interest and those aren't so great. I've also dated guys who looked good on paper (good job, reliable, etc) where there was no sexual chemistry. The best is somewhere in between.1
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