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You're not too young, but I'd still recommend getting married first. A baby is a toll on a relationship and requires complete commitment from both parties. When the going gets tough (and it will with children), the decision for him to move on to someone else will be much easier, and then you're left in single parent status.
I'm not saying this can't happen within a marriage, but usually these guys have already decided they want to commit their lives to that woman and children.
My biggest question would be, if you're not ready to get married, why are you ready to have kids? I think that says a lot about the state of the relationship.5
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