I always wondered what guys would pick cuz I'm a virgin and I'm perfectly fine with being one and waiting. I think if a guy truly loves me then waiting shouldn't be an issue. If he wants it before marriage just to see if the sex is "Good enough" then that must be more important to him than me and that's not working for me. So... what do you guys think when it comes to settling down? Wait or don't wait? (this is a judgement free zone so speak your mind).
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I think you're looking at it a bit too narrow. I do think that you should wait and do what's more comfortable for you, but I don't think that just because a guy wants to have sex before marriage it means he cares more about sex than he does about you. Sex is an important piece in a marriage, and now that I've had sex myself, I know how important good sex is to a happy relationship. I also know how much bad sex (or incompatible sex and drives) can affect a relationship as well.
And it's not just about the guys. I wouldn't wait until marriage now.1