I just read a question and someone said that they would walk away from their relationship if their S/O didn't feel the same way about marriage as them, even if they were in love.
One of the comments, a guy said that her priorities were messed up because of that.
Now to each his own but I would have to agree with the question asker. It's not so much that marraige means a lot to me but I dont want to give my all, and do wife things for a man who doesn't want care about being my husband. I knew a woman who had kids and did everything for a man. He said he d8dnt believe in marriage. After 10 years and 2 kids, he broke up with her found another woman and married her after 1 year... She was heartbroken because she thought she had obeyed his wishes by not marrying him but still treating him right.
Im still young so I just wanna have fun but when I am ready to settle down, I would like it to be with a man who has the same future goals as me. I dint want to be a girlfriend forever.
Men, the ones who say it doesn't matter to be married, do you think you're just scared of marriage?
Women, if you think it doesn't matter neither, is it because your just scared your man will leave you if u push the subject or... Wht?
I dont know... Speak about your thoughts!!
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Call me old fashioned, but I still firmly believe in the concept of marriage. Of course, people can get divorced, but marriage still offers a level of security to the relationship which is higher than just being committed yet unmarried partners.
I certainly wouldn't consider being long term with a woman who didn't want to get married eventually.2