I never thought I would be in this situation, so I was wondering what other people would do if this happened to them (I hope it never would)
OK, so I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year now, he's Jordanian. I lived with him a few months there, we fell in love and when I returned home we carried on in a long distance relationship. It was pretty serious, he'd talk about living with me in the future and marriage even. His father once mentioned to him about getting married to a girl in the village - its quite a traditional place- and he got really angry and refused as he didn't want to marry some girl he didn't know.
Anyway, now he's told me that there's been more pressure on him from his family to get married to this girl, and basically he gave in. He still loves me, but he's been trying not to, if ya know what I mean. he's been trying to forget me because he has to now, he's getting married.
At first when I heard, I tried to accept it. It was really painful, I actually feel physically sick when I imagine him living with a girl he doesn't know and raising a family..now I'm thinking maybe I could do something...it would be quite a slim chance but..
I'm just wondering what you would do, if you both love each other but this happens. Would you just accept it and move on, or would you fight it?
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I would be thinking if this guy loves me so much,and his feelings are this real,why can't he stand up to his family?
Think about it-The man who loves you is marrying another woman because of pressure from his family.Nah,thats not right.
He shoulda been a man and stood his ground,his feelings for you should of made him outraged at being pressured to marry someone else.
I would want a man who would move mountains to be with me and one with more balls,im afraid,so id say move on.0