Women: If you were married, would you make dinner for your husband
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Of course. However, I'd expect him to cook for me too. And help out sometimes, as well.32
Women: If you were married, would you make dinner for your husband
Lmao I can't cook. All all. Or bake. No desire to learn. But if I were the one home first after work then sure, maybe I'll try to make something. Or start something for him to finish when he got home.
But I won't be the first one home. So yeah, probably not.
Women: If you were married, would you make dinner for your husband?
In my view he can cook for himself he's not a child.
We'd take turns.
Yes AND no.
When your in a relationship of any kind, it's a partnership. I fully expect there to be days I cook and days he cooks and days we both cook. And even better if you can cook together most days, to be honest. Says a lot if you're able to work well together in the kitchen without accidentally knifing your life partner/playing bumper people with various kitchen utensils in hand.
If some I'm dating doesn't know how to cook, you better believe I'm going to teach them! And if they are stuck up and call it women's work? Butt. To. Curb.
It's not the 1950s anymore.
Yes I will be cooking regularly. I judge wives who don't cook for their husbands and kids
Sometimes. And I'd expect that he would make dinner for me sometimes. Personally, I think if you're in a relationship and living together, it makes sense that the person who is home first makes dinner, that way it is ready at a reasonable time (like, if one partner gets home at 4:00 but the other doesn't get home til 6:00, the first person should make dinner so they can eat at a reasonable time, like 6-6:30ish). But whoever does the cooking doesn't have to clean up after dinner, or both partners cook and clean up together. What works best for individual couples will depend on their mutual schedules and talents, etc.. but always, always they should strive to make equal contributions to the household and relationship.
Yes. But he'd have to cook for me too. Or we can cook together.
Yes, I would. I've never cooked before in my life but I take comfort in the fact that my mom didn't learn how to cook until she married my dad and she's an excellent cook and baker. My mom always had a home cooked meal made every night of the week, even when she was working and even now she makes a good meal every night. So, I plan on doing the same thing when/if I ever get married. I hope to be as good of a cook as she is.
not as a rule, never
I could never be a hosewife, just not me
I would make him dinner if I felt like it, or if we agreed that I cook from Monday till Wednesday and he from thursay till Saturday or something
all the chores for me would have to be shared
I prefere working over housework, why would I for being a female have to do something I don't like? I prefer doing what I like, work I like
Chores are obligations for me that partners should share
But to me, not to sound sexist, but by logic, men should rather be the one to do more housework since I have a job and I'm giving birth to kids, he only also has a job. Now I would have to give birth, work and do housework and he would only have to work... doesn't sound fair
However, that is what works for me, I have nothing against other females doing housework especially if that makes them happy cause it makes me utterly miserable
I'm not married, but I live with my partner. I cook for him, he cooks for me. I enjoy cooking, so I tend to cook more, but if I don't feel like it, or on days when he's home, but I have to work, then he cooks.
I cook dinner for my boyfriend every day because I love him (we live together).
It's not a distribution of roles, though. My cooking is amazeballs, so I prefer to make dinner for us. He also finishes work later than I do, so he's very obviously gonna be hungry, so again, I love the man and of course want to make sure he's fed. :p
If I end up a house wife and he's working to support a family I would try to do it. If we're both working to support a family then chores and cooking shall be split. If I'm the only one working to support the family you better damn well believe I'm making him my house hubby if I were to be married. Although, I would cook weather he's a house hubby or not since I like making pastries and things like that. xD
Yes because I am both good at cooking and I enjoy it.
Both of us would have to contribute to household chores so I would rather cook and do a little bit of cleaning and have him do most of the cleaning.
Of course in the end it depends on what falls in place for each side. I think if one person isn't feeling well the other should pick up a bit more of their work.
I don't see why not as long as he does the same. But I think it's better if we make it together. It can be a bonding/sharing/romantic experience.
I feel sorry for all of the people saying how they don't know how to cook or that they won't cook. I guess you'll be broke your entire adulthood from ordering take out everyday. Cooking has nothing to do with it being the 1950s and women in the kitchen BS, because that's where this argument seems to be heading as I see some of the pathetic answers from some of these sorry souls. Cooking is a life skill. So learn it, or else you'll die from obesity, because take out is not healthy.
To answer your question, yes, I'd cook dinner for my husband, as I'd expect him to cook dinner for me sometimes. We'd take turns. Marriage is a partnership.
sometimes sure. not all the time though, I plan to have a full time job as well so I'm not cooking all the time.
I really enjoy cooking feeding the people I love. But I don't grill and I don't really bake. I'll prep and I'll help out where I'm wanted but I really don't have patience for either.
Yeah. I'd do it, not because I feel like it's women's duty, but because I really like cooking and baking cakes/desserts. It makes me happy when someone I love enjoys something I made :)
I wouldn't want him to take it for granted though and if he DEMANDS it, I'll stop doing it. I don't like the sexist side of this whole women-kitchen story. It's not written anywhere that we have to do it.
( engaged) We both cook for each other. Have equally busy schedules. Whichever is home earlier cooks or we make a bunch of stuff together on time off and freeze it:)
Though there are many healthy things you can eat that take like five minutes to prepare in case no one feels like cooking- so no big deal :-)
Of course I would, I wouldn't expect him to cook all the time. He's not my personal chef. Although I would want one of those if I could afford it.
It goes both ways... so if I am he is too... In all things. Cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry...
I love to cook and yea I would cook for a guy if I was with him. But I don't want to be the only one doing the cooking. There's have to be a few nights where there's take out if we're both too tired to cook or whatever and it would be nice for him to surprise me by cooking every once in awhile as well.(:
Yes of course!!! I cook for my best guy friend and we are not even dating I just love cooking and really enjoy it when they love my cooking
Why absolutely not? Hahaha I get the whole issue with stereotyping gender roles but there's no need to take it this far. I will cook, clean and nurture my kids because I want to and it's what comes from the inside. I'll treat my husband llike a prince as long as he treats me like his princess! ;) Nothing wring with doing things for your husband!
I just stopped by to say, if a beautiful woman cooked food for me often, I think I'd just die.
First, I'd marry her like as many times as possible, and then I'd just die.
I hope so! I will cook for her too.
Shared responsibility, with accomodations made for each others' work schedules. That's how I see it at least.
I'm not a picky eater, by any means, but I prefer to do the cooking myself. My fiancé, although an amazing person in many ways, cannot cook... not well, at least. I do appreciate her effort though!
P. s. I am not trying to sound like a jerk... I truly do prefer to do the cooking though.
I prefer not having such services. For some reason it comes up during fights.
I don't expect anyone to make me dinner but couples do nice things for each other and it has been shown that couples with well defined relationship goals do better then ones without those defined rolls. So if it's her roll to cook dinner then it's fine as we would be a team so there would be things I do as well.
All these people who are butthurt about doing nice things for their SO will forever be missing out.
I hope, it's amazing when someone cooks for you.
I know I will cook for her, I love cooking and doing it for my future wife will be amazing.
Or we could just cook together, even better.
I am a better cook than my wife. She cooked for me once in a while, but I cooked for her more than she did for me. Frankly I preferred it that way.
I would hope most would, so hot when a girl can cook!
I'd have a problem with most women cooking for because I'd have to eat their meals. In my 38, I can honestly say that I have become something of a culinary arts guru. I know how to make meatloaf that you would not only eat but love.
She'd have to be a really good cook to impress this guy. I actually harvest prickly pear cactus and make my own jelly.
You aren't likely to outdo me on a grill either.
I would sure hope she could cook sometimes. I love cooking myself so I would cook for her too.
I voted A I will make dinner for myself
I'd rather her earn the money, while I cook, garden, and do house projects, to be honest.
There's a pretty good chance I'd be better than her at those things anyway.
Good news is i know how to cook
Wow, seems I should check whether my girlfriend is a good cook or not.
I don't know how to cook and I'm very clumsy.
Ours says yes :)
Lol at all the girls saying yes. They lyin they lyin. You know damn well they're not gonna cook us shit!
You're gonna walk in the door and your wife is gonna throw a half eaten bag of popcorn at your ass.
I'm surprised many said yes. The ones that didn't (and ones that down vote others for saying yes) are probably people that bring nothing to the relationship at all. Girls have always been pretty lackluster in that department comparatively anyway.
I cook for my wife too. She does most of the cooking because she truly loves to cook.
Do you mean everyday , or just sometimes? I would imagine most women would be willing to do it part of the time. If a woman is 100% against ever cooking at any point in their marriage, then she shouldn't be married. That shows a complete lack of caring about your partner. Few women will see it as her job to cook for her man every day.
The exception is if she is a housewife. If she doesn't have a job outside of the house, then it becomes her job to take care of the family in the home. I think most women accept that when they decide to be housewives or stay at home moms.
If you ever do find a woman willing to cook for you everyday while still holding down a job, you need to put a ring on that girl fast. There aren't many women willing to put in that level of effort to take care of her man. The ones that are willing to, deserve to be pampered in other ways by her man.
I Cook For My Wife 7 Nights A Week!
I Am Home From Work Before Her, I Plan Dinner To Be Ready As She Walks In The Door, She Worked Hard All Day, The Last Thing She Needs To Do Is Slave Over The Stove Or Oven After Walking In From A Long Day At Work.
I Prefer She Change Into Something More Comfortable, Sit Down And Be Served A Nice Hot Meal.
I Also Clean The House On Weekends, So She Can Relax!
I Love My Wife And I Am Willing To Do All The Cooking And Cleaning.
If She Wants To Lend A Helping Hand, Which She Does Do. But I Don't Expect It, And I Never Ask Her For Help!
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