He says he doesn't want to marry me now but he does in the future. I'm so confused. What is he expecting to be different in the future that would make him want to marry me then? Is he expecting some kind of change in the relationship? I thought that if someone says they want to marry a person, it means they'd marry that person exactly how they were. I'm scared he's just blowing hot air...
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Ok, this is simple.
What he said-"I don't want to marry you now, but I do in the future"
What he means-"I don't want to marry you now, but I do in the future"
The thing is that HE may be going through stuff mentally, physically, spiritually, or emotionally that makes HIM not want to put more pressure on HIS own life at the moment. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He may not be ready for marriage.1