Since everybody gets married and only few of us get to be someones first sexual partner, that means Marriage means less than a past GF/BF V-card. That is why I feel like my girlfriend is ripping me off. Her Ex gets a virgin and i get the leftovers for 60 years. Her Ex gets bragging righs for the next 60 years. Am i wrong here?
My girlfriend wants to marry me after college a few years down the road. She says she loves me More than her Ex boyfriend but I Shouldn't believe it because she made him the first sexual partner and not me. I'm not her first sexual partner and that pisses me off. That is because being a Girls 1st sexual partner is more rare than getting married. Everybody eventally gets married because they stop being shallow. Very few of us get to become the 1st.
I've done a variety of sexual things with 8 girls between high school and middle school before her. We never met before we started dating. I was dating another girl whil she was dating her Ex boyfriend.
How do i get rid of these internal feelings of disappointment for her?
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The answer to your question is a big fat NO. Virginity isn't worth the shit that it's printed on. It might be rare to be someone's first sexual partner, but that alone means nothing. Get that ! It means zilch.
Your first sexual experience is very unlikely to be the best one, and it always gets better. That even applies to a new partner who's experienced, and if you're both experienced. If you can bang her better than anyone else ever did and she wants to be with you instead of them, that's all that counts.0