It's always been the man to propose to the women. I know what a women would feel like of course but what if it was the other way around? And also state why you don't think this happens in today's society.
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I'd love it.
Part of me would be disappointed as I wouldn't be able to come up with some dream proposal for her which would suck but I would like that she took the initiative herself and clearly wanted to marry me.
I'd be shocked initially (like girls always are) but would just answer the question (hopefully with a yes).
I think it doesn't happen because of tradition. Many girls here ask questions about how to not look too 'clingy' or desperate. Far moreso than guys. Most guys seem a lot more comfortable being the 'pursuers' and girls seem more comfortable being the 'pursued' (figuratively speaking lol). Most girls who have to take the initiative seem to be struggling with the idea of looking desperate or not making him 'work for it', while some guys who are on the receiving end sometimes feel like she doesn't think he's 'man enough' to do it.
Really though, if you're both secure people who love each other, it doesn't really matter imho.1