Men don't really get any say in their wedding but when Chandler voiced the one thing he had to have at the wedding was "The Swing Kings", Monica gave up her dream dress, just so she could get the band for him. I realize it was just a show, but I just think that was so freaking awesome of her.
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Depends on the woman. I think most women still want to plan the wedding together with their partners and they have a say.
Unless the guy doesn't give a fuck or the woman is a bridezilla0